As we mark the 2024 International Day of the Girl, themed “Girls’ Vision for the Future”, I find myself reflecting not only on the future girls are building but on the powerful women who have shaped my past and present. These women have been instrumental in moulding me into the person I am today strong, driven, and always ready to pay it forward.
The journey starts with my mother, Morine Owuor, the original architect. She has been my rock, guiding me with a mix of gentle nudges and stern reminders that hard work is the only path to success. If anyone taught me how to build a solid foundation, it was her. She had an uncanny ability to help me see beyond the immediate challenges, showing me that resilience isn’t just a word; it is a lifestyle.
At the beginning of my academic journey, I encountered the superwomen who guided my first steps in education. Madam Alice, Susan, Elizabeth, and Julia were the first to help me navigate the confusing world of ABCs and 123s. They taught me patience (and probably needed quite a bit themselves!), laying the groundwork for everything that was to come.
But one of the most impactful figures in my life has been my sister. Always my fiercest advocate, she had no qualms about ensuring I stayed on track, even if it meant telling-on me when I skipped school! Her loyalty and firm hand guided me through my rebellious moments, reminding me that tough love is often the best kind of love. I will always be grateful for the way she prioritized my well-being, sometimes even when I did not do so myself.
Moving forward, I had the privilege of learning from Mrs. Sifuma, Mrs. Odhiambo, Mrs. Karwitha, and Mrs. Otieno in primary school, who taught me that education wasn’t just about books but also about character. In secondary school, Mrs. Josephine Ochieng turned English lessons into a lively debate club, while Madam Syprose, my history teacher, inspired me with stories of historical figures who stood up for justice. They helped me understand that you can change the world through words and action.
In my youth I crossed paths with phenomenal women like Grace, and Winnie. These women were not just friends; they were my support system. Whether it was through shared laughter or sage advice, they always knew how to keep me grounded. In my professional journey, I was fortunate to meet more inspiring women. Catherine Wagude, my first-ever female supervisor, introduced me to the corporate world as a volunteer. She set the foundation for how I approach work, emphasizing professionalism, compassion, and dedication. My time at VSO was no less transformative. Working with Yvonne Komora, Lydia Opiyo, and Majina Martha underscored the importance of teamwork and community. Their leadership demonstrated that when women come together, they can drive substantial change. This collective lesson has stayed with me throughout my career, reminding me that success is rarely a solo endeavor.
Later, I had the privilege to work alongside Faith Mukiria at Zizi Afrique Foundation, a colleague who I admired for her leadership and insights. At Zizi Afrique Foundation, I have been lucky to find a community of women whose interactions have made it a second home. Their diversity has broadened my understanding of collaboration, showing me that inclusion and shared perspectives lead to richer outcomes. Every woman I have worked with at Zizi has left an imprint on me, deepening my appreciation for mentorship, leadership, and the undeniable strength that women bring to the table.
As I pursued my master’s degree at Jomo Kenyatta University of Agriculture and Technology (JKUAT), a few women were pivotal in my academic journey. Felisters guided me through the maze that is thesis writing, offering insights that made the process not only manageable but enjoyable. Madam Mutiso turned the hardest subjects into something fun, and for that, I will always be grateful. And how could I forget Rose, my fellow class representative and fervent supporter? Together, we navigated the challenges of being student leaders, always cheering each other on.
Finally, my heartfelt thanks go to my wife, who has given me a new perspective on life. She taught me that while ambition is important, so is self-care. She has helped me understand the value of thinking about myself first, reminding me that you cannot pour from an empty cup. Her wisdom about focusing on what truly matters and accepting that you cannot please everyone has been life changing.
The theme of this year’s International Day of the Girl could not be more befitting. “Girls’ Vision for the Future” is not just about hope but about action. Girls around the world are shaping the future in meaningful ways, and it is up to all of us to support them. We must listen to their voices, amplify their ideas, and provide the resources they need to realize their dreams.
The women who have touched my life have each left an indelible mark, pushing me to be better and to give back. As we celebrate the International Day of the Girl, let us remember that every girl’s vision matters—and together, we can help turn those visions into reality. This journey is not just mine but belongs to every woman who has lifted me up. As we move forward, let us continue to support the incredible potential of every girl, because the future is in their hands.
